many to many question

I have a form that has an inline contact creation form to create a contact that will be associated to the form. How do I make it so when the from is submitted I can associate the contact to the form without doing a build? This will create a new contact and will create the relationship but then I will have two contacts one with a relation and one without.

Anyone? Am I including enough info?

Is this what you are looking for? http://ryandaigle.com/articles/2009/2/1/what-s-new-in-edge-rails-nested-attributes

-Danimal

No, I have to run 2.1.0 due to fcgi on windows.

Actually yes I have seen quite a bit on rails 2.3 but unable to use due to FCGI not working with the extra stack.