anonymous voting, how do they do this ?

at wikio.com, you can vote anonymously, how do you think they are doing this...?

- if I vote in FF, then clear cookies, it remembers I voted - if I then vote in IE, it still remembers I voted...

so it must be server side, but checking source IP would not be very good...

never mind, I just tried from my wifes machine, it still thinks I have already voted, so must be source IP

The IP address is provided to you by your web server which gets it from the TCP/IP connection between the client and the server. The three-way handshake makes it impossible to spoof the IP address, so this scheme works to ensure no dupes, but it causes problems if you share a connection behind NAT. If someone on your shared connection votes before you do, you're SOL.

In your rails controllers, you can get the IP via request.remote_ip.

CAPTCHAs, or requiring logins that are email verified... There are a number of solutions; they all have their pros and cons and which one is right for you depends on your app...