Would appreciate any assistance in this area, as I can't seem to find
any articles on Ruby connecting to a remote mysql database. I'm sure
that the username and password works. Is there something that I might
missed out?
This post probably belongs on a MySQL mailing list, not a Rails one, but...
It appears that you need to configure the MySQL permissions on your remote database server to allow remote connections from your "originating" host (for the username/password combo you configure in your yml file). The other thing to check is that the firewall on your remote server allows incoming connections (on port 3306 - by default).