One thing related which we are talking about including in Rails is including rack-mini-profiler by default.
Recently Osama Sayegh finished some internal cleanup that passed @rafaelfranca’s review and this was merged into Rails
https://github.com/rails/rails/pull/38701
I personally rely on it quite a lot to find N+1s both in dev and production cause it becomes quite a habit to sneak a look there and notice right away if something is looking odd.