I implemented a friendship model like Flickr's where you can have a friend that doesn't call you a friend... I used Josh Susser's self-referential model (http://blog.hasmanythrough.com/articles/2006/04/21/self-referential-through).
I want to change to the myspace model where two people are either both friends, or not at all.
Are there any examples out there that implement it this way?