Active record queries, reverse lookup on has_many: :through =>

User.rb
has_many :looking_for_whos, :class_name => “UserLookingForWho”
has_many :asset_looking_for_whos, :through => :looking_for_whos
belongs_to :asset_usertype

In a controller i can do the following:

@users = User.where(asset_usertype_id: [current_user.looking_for_who_ids])
to get all users who’s asset_user_type_id is in looking_for_who_ids,

but the trick i would like to add a reverse lookup as well; to maker sure that Users selected also is

looking for the current_user.asset_usertype_id. But i cant get my head around what to do, someone

who could give me some pointers ?